Should Men Play Hard to Get?

Many men wonder if they should play “hard to get”, in the same way as a woman does. The answer is yes, and no. While men should play hard to get, doing so in the same way as a woman is self defeating. Let me explain.

Woman get all the opportunities in the world to play hard to get, because they are approached all the time. Men don’t. Men still have to be the approacher who presents himself to women; you can’t just sit around expecting them to come to you.

Still, you should be SELECTIVE. That is how a man plays hard to get. Don’t be too eager to get with her. Make it clear at all times during the interaction that you are EVALUATING her, and don’t necesarily want to take it to the next level.

For more advice, please see Dating Advice for Men.